Emotional Dependency..

Isn't that what starts most relationships?
Yes if they are both single, or ...?
Well my theory is based on observation of how most relationships start, and how mine started as well...
Most cases, Christian cases that i have heard of, is that
1> Either the girl and the guy go thru a tough time, then the one who does consoles with the other, and then because he/she only talks to them about the trouble and noone else, a dependency develops, and something happens..
2> The girl and or guy has lots of free time and are bored and talk to each other a lot cos there is noone else, then they talk more and more and hint things to each other..
3> The girl and guy are forced to be together and do most things together, and eventually they like it, spend more and more time together and something happens...
4> normal friends, who dont think anything, but talk quite often, but when someone makes a comment about them being close, something is added to the mind and it makes things happen..
5> basically spending a significant amount of time with mostly one person of the opposite sex/or even same sex, can cause thoughts to occur...