Listening to: Disorientated by Delta Goodrem...--> You are my Rock + Hidden Track...
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Why is it that some people think more than others, why do some people think so much and others just have thoughts pop up in their mind like "hunger" "food" "taste"
What does this mean?
Are their thoughts suppressed?
Those who think a lot also can be "categorised"
Indulging in thoughts
Analysing thoughts
Planning
Rearranging
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Underlying causes because of their personality?
Anxiety
Fear
Nervousness
Control freak
Perfectionism
Obsessiveness
--> introvertness?
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What about those who don't?
personality:
Confidence
Biological/physical desire oriented
Flexibility
Impulsive
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hmm i can't think that much..=== im fragmented =]
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But one thing..
My cousin and I were discussing a story that even hearing it made me slightly anxious and stressed..
whereas she was perfectly fine with it..
It was the spider story..
Later I asked her whether she felt those physiological reactions that I do..
I found that she doesn't.. she is scared.. but she just cries..
she doesn't feel the fight/flight tension and emotions that I experience..
What I feel if I was in her situation..
Nervousness -> sweaty palms, dry mouth, lump in throat, faster breathing, and if more serious nervous = palpitations of heart beating.
Panic/fear -> pain in abdomen - can cause need to go to toilet :P; muscle tiredness, weakness..and other physiological things.. if serious fear/panic -> numbness, tingling..no blood to hands etc..
So that's the difference between intro and extro..
I learnt once that introverts express their emotions/themselves internally - monitoring things and reacting internally..
While extroverts express Outwardly..- eg crying, jumping, shouting,
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"Well hang on, be strong...no you're not defeated, and soon you'll be smiling once again, then you won't have to feel it and go with the wind, time passes you by and know that you are allowed to cry..." - Delta [Be Strong]
--- no we introverts sometimes don't know that we are allowed to cry.. i think..
I bet my mum is extrovert :).. she can't understand why I am up late, why I talk to people so much, why I think so much..
Although she is the worry type.. so don't know.. she doesn't keep it to herself I guess.. she Expresses it all out for her own convenience.. and don't care if others are annoyed or if it hurts them..
